Totally relative but relative to what? To everything. So than to nothing, hmmm:)
Am reading Hardcore Zen it is so good so am a bit out there right now.
By good hearted I meant compassionate, I get the vibe that you are
very nice and it has been a pleasure to chat.
I highly reccommend this book, it's really amazing.
About the links, I like to do the relative thing:) squares, triangles, circles;
According to this book, I am talking to a part of myself,
that is you, and vise versa, must be amazing:)
Plus it confirms that we are all to an extent anti social,
no need to be neurotic about it, thank you for making me feel
wonderful, that's the other book: 'there is nothing wrong with you'.